It’s been a week since I’ve written anything about
Aaron. It’s not because he hasn’t been
active……talking, arguing, laughing, eating…..plenty of eating. Plenty of all the above, actually. Here are some highlights of our week:
Conflict
and Forgiveness:
Aaron came home last Friday with some anger. He had a situation with someone and it wasn’t
pleasant. He was animated, bending over
and rubbing his hands together as he told me what happened. Oh boy, here we go. He quickly conveyed the same story to Gary
when he got home, but Gary and I quickly left to meet friends for dinner so
there was no resolution at that moment.
It was a topic of conversation all that weekend, which is always the case. Thankfully, things were made right at his day
group. We appreciate the staff there
that care for Aaron and helped him work through it all. Barb said that Aaron actually took the hands
of the person involved and said he was sorry.
Barb was shocked and pleased at that.
I was extremely shocked and wondered if we were talking about our Aaron
or someone else! Wonders never cease……especially
with Aaron! He was so happy to rush in
the door that day and tell me what happened.
“Mom! Me and _______ made up!” And
guess what he said that was so curious? “But
it’s kind of scary to be made up with ______.”
Interesting. I think he’s not
sure that he can keep from getting frustrated again, but that’s a guess…..which
is sometimes the best we do to figure out Aaron and his thinking.
Laughter:
We were watching Wheel of Fortune one night, and one of
the contestants bought a vowel….an ‘A.’
Aaron yelled, “A!! As in E I E I
O!!” He sang the E I E I O part like we
do in the Old McDonald song. It was too
funny. But I couldn’t help myself, so I
said, “Um, Aaron……E I E I O doesn’t have an A.” “What?” he replied. So I repeated, “E I E I O doesn’t have an ‘A’
in it.” He just looked at me, then cocked his head and
stared into space for a few seconds. “Oh,”
he flatly replied. Two nights later
someone bought an ‘O.’ “O!!” Aaron yelled. “As in (and he sang again), E I E I O!!” I laughed and he laughed because E I E I O
does have an ‘O.’ And all is well with the world.
An Annoying
Ear:
Aaron started complaining one night during Wheel of
Fortune that his ear was stopped up and that he couldn’t hear well. I told him that maybe we need to take him in
and have his ears cleaned. “No!” he
loudly replied. Soon after, he yawned
and then happily said, “There! My ear
unpopped!” The next day it was, “Since
my ear stopped up, I have diarrhea.” I
reminded him to check his feeding frenzy list from that day before he blamed
his ear. And the next day: “When I talk, I can hear my voice in my
ear. I can only hear the voice of me in
my stopped up ear.” Gary and I exchanged
humorous glances at that comment, unknown to Aaron. His ear is a major concern of his now and we
may need to have it checked, but we’ve learned that with Aaron it’s best to
wait awhile and see how it all works out……because he has a little hypochondria
at times like this.
Wonder:
I went in Aaron’s bedroom to say goodnight. He was propped up in bed, reading his Handy
History Answer Book. I was nearly ready
to leave the room after our goodnight when Aaron said, “Mom, look. Michelangelo made a bad statue.” I asked why it was bad, knowing full well
the answer. “Look,” Aaron answered as he
held the book for me to see. “So what
makes it bad?” I asked again. “It doesn’t
have clothes on. That’s strange,” Aaron
said as he held it out still for me to see.
There was Michaelangelo’s David in all his glory…..and me trying to
explain it to Aaron. I was glad to say
good night and shut the door.
Wonder
#2:
On Wednesday, Aaron went with his group to All Star
Sports. When he got home, as he was
showing me the toy rifle he picked up somewhere and brought home, and as I was
telling him he needed to return it…..good grief!......I saw something
protruding out of his pocket. I asked
him what was in his pocket and he said, “Oh,”……as he reached in his pocket and
pulled out the something. It was
sporks. Sporks he had nabbed off the
food counter at All Star Sports. 23
Sporks. Really? 23 Sporks?
Really. I counted them. 23.
Wonder
#3:
Aaron was very excited to run in the house the other day
and hold out his hand to show me something as I heard Gary out in the garage
trying to finish telling Aaron to bring it back outside. IT was one of our caterpillars that is eating
up our pecan trees. Aaron was intrigued
by IT and really wanted to show IT to me, so I waited to tell him to get rid of
IT until I had oohed and aahed over IT with fake enthusiasm. Aaron loves bugs, just as if he was still 6
years old. I didn’t want to dampen his
joy, but I was very glad when he took IT back outside.
Fun:
Yesterday Aaron was sleeping a little late, so I gingerly
opened his door to find him sitting on his bed…….writing in his “Time I Go To
Bed and Time I Get Up” notebook. He
wrote down 9:03, and looked at me with bleary eyes. He was very tired, he said, and even after
his shower and coffee I opened my bedroom door to find this.
So I decided to have that fun day with Aaron that I’ve
told him we would someday have. We went
to the new Sam’s that was opening yesterday.
Aaron got happy real quick, and wasn’t the least bit tired.
Well, it was worth
it to have fun……to see his smile……and to laugh as he listened to the Mariachi
band playing fun songs. He complained
that they were too loud, while I loved every minute and wanted more.
One
More Laugh:
This last laugh was this morning, after Aaron drank his
coffee and we were taking his cups downstairs.
I guess he got a few coffee grounds in his cup. “Mom, that coffee you gave me still had seeds
in it……like specky seeds.”
I smiled. And I
wish he could get those specky coffee seeds out with a spork. We have a few.
Thanks to Aaron, we have sporks. And a mostly good week to boot.
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