Today is
Monday, and I am fairly certain that I know how this day is going to go. It has nothing to do with my plans for the
day, which include a hair appointment and the exterminator making his two-month
visit and a way too long to-do list. It
has everything to do with the fact that Aaron has a cold and is staying home
today, which makes him very happy. But
there is one thing that would make him happier and so this one thing will
consume his thoughts, which will in turn shape my day. This one thing, this huge thing, is his
keyboard.
Aaron's
computer took its last breath over a week ago.
Aaron even demonstrated to us several times the unusual noise that his
computer made as it breathed its last. His
rendition was quite hilarious, as Aaron would say. So Gary, our computer pro (thank the Lord!),
diagnosed Aaron's computer as dead.......very dead, of unknown causes. Aaron took the news well, especially when he
heard his dad say that he would fix it - one way or another. After all, we have to live with Aaron. It turned out that Gary had to order a new
computer and many parts and pieces, which he somehow knew how to put together
(thank the Lord again.......and Gary!).
I have no idea how Gary has this knowledge, but I do believe he was just
born with this innate ability to be able to put almost anything together. I walked downstairs one night after the parts
arrived in the mail and found Gary with multiple screws, most very small, and
lots of computer-looking things laying around.............and I wondered how
this was all going to turn out. But he
did it and now Aaron has a new computer.
We remove
Aaron's keyboard from his room every night because if he has his keyboard in
the morning he is very grouchy. This routine
works well and Aaron has come to expect
it. He knows that if he has a good
morning, then when he returns from his group, his keyboard will be on his desk
- just waiting for him! And now with his
new computer, and having been without a computer for many days, he is totally
enjoying his games again.
This past
Friday, Aaron woke up with a mild sore
throat. On Saturday, the sore throat was
worse and now he has a bad cold. He has
still been playing his Lego Star Wars game, but has also been sleeping more and
coughing more, and of course, snorting more.............snorting a lot. And telling us over and over again that he
doesn't feel well. He has to be sure
that we don't lose sight of that fact.
On Friday
night, after gorging on popcorn at the movie with his group that afternoon, and
then gorging again when he was invited to Elijah's house for the evening, he
burped. He burped and then he informed
me, "Mom, hot acid just came through that place where my throat is
sore."
Well, that's
just gross, Aaron! But he is puzzled at
my reaction. Facts are facts, Mom.
Last night
he said, "I hate my breath." I
was about to say that I do, too...........but I refrained. He then explained, after I asked, that he
doesn't like how it feels to breathe when he has this cold..........all stopped
up and then coughing, too. So he hates
his breath. Only Aaron would say it in
such a way, and I smile.
I told him
that he could stay home today since he is feeling so poorly and having breath
issues. This news made Aaron very
happy. He loves his group but he does
love being at home, especially when he doesn't feel so well. However, the main thing on Aaron's mind is
his keyboard...........his keyboard which is laying on my dresser and not on
his desk.
He lumbered
downstairs early this morning and sat at the kitchen table with me. "I don't feel so well, Mom." I totally expected this. I almost said it for him. He brightened when I told him that I was
aware of how he feels and that he was staying home today. And he replied, "I'm not going to ask
for my keyboard today. Am I?"
We had a
little stare-down. I was totally resigning
myself to my future for this day, and Aaron was completely unaware. He continued by asking, "What do you
think?"
Believe me
Aaron, you do not want to know what I am thinking.
I assured
him that he could have the keyboard later in the day, knowing very well that I
have not heard the end of his keyboard comments. This is my lot for today. And sure enough, as I folded a load of
laundry he said, "Mom, can I have the keyboard later? I'm not making you!" This,
and various other keyboard references, have already been a part of my
morning. He also said, "Mom, I like
my new keyboard box. It has a cute light
where I turn on my keyboard."
A keyboard
box. This is what he calls his new
computer. I could never make up the
words that he uses to describe things, and I smile even as I tuck that
description away so that I can share it with Gary later.
Aaron
decided to go out to the mulch awhile ago.
"Mom, I'm going outside. Can
I have my keyboard later?" And just
now, when I heard him come in, he was soon asking, "Mom, I'm going
upstairs. Can you put my keyboard
up?"
Aaron is
tenacious, that's for sure. He holds on
to his ideas and desires until we let go.
He may change his approach, as he just said, "Mom? How 'bout you do it after your
shower?" I know he works better if
he has a definite time frame to work with.
He doesn't allow us the freedom to be vague.
Here he
comes again. Like I said, this is my
day. Gotta love Aaron! And I better get something concrete set in
place regarding his keyboard, real quick!
So goes my
day.
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