Aaron has
always been easy to please when it comes to food. He’s never been a very picky eater. You can tell that by looking at him. :) Probably his very most favorite food is lasagna. He loves, loves, loves lasagna…….pretty much
on a scale with Garfield.
In fact, I
found a new recipe last weekend for Garfield’s Skillet Lasagna. It looked so delicious that I decided to try
it. I cook mostly low carb but an
occasional treat like lasagna never hurt anyone, right? Especially Aaron!
This past
Monday I told Aaron that for supper I was fixing Skillet Lasagna. All Aaron heard was the word “lasagna” and so
he was all about it. I informed him that
it was a new recipe and was made in the skillet, but that didn’t mean a lot to
Aaron because he still only heard the lasagna part. Until he walked into the kitchen when I was
making this new Skillet Lasagna……
He peered
down into the large electric skillet that held the Skillet Lasagna. He backed up then, like he does when he sees
something new and suspicious. He kept
staring. Then he finally spoke.
“It’s not
gonna look like lasagna.”
That was
it. I knew we were in trouble. Therefore I embellished the wonderful
attributes of this new Skillet Lasagna.
The hamburger……the tomatoes……the seasonings……the noodles……the CHEESE!!
But Aaron left
the kitchen deeply disappointed because this new dish was not the lasagna that
he loves. Skillet Lasagna is not Oven
Lasagna. Period.
He ate the
Skillet Lasagna with Gary and me for supper that evening. He liked it, but he didn’t love it. Skillet Lasagna just wasn’t Oven
Lasagna. I had to agree with him on
that, though I didn’t let him know it.
The next day
Aaron stayed home because we had a meeting here at the house with a coordinator
for his new state insurance. After our
meeting was over, as Patrick and I stood on the porch talking, Aaron bounced
out the front door with a question.
“Mom! What’s for supper? Can we have TRUE lasagna?”
I explained
the story to Patrick as he laughed, and I told Aaron that we weren’t having lasagna
that night……..Skillet or True Lasagna.
But
yesterday, Friday, was a different story.
Aaron was having a good morning because he knew that his day group was
going to go see the new Transformer’s movie.
He was happy and compliant. He
also knew that he would get his Friday surprise if his last weekday went
well. This day was looking good!
So to make it
even better, I had one more surprise for him.
“Aaron,” I said. “Would you like
me to make lasagna for supper tonight?”
And immediately,
with great hopefulness in his voice, he said, “NORMAL?”
I laughed as
I told him that yes, I would fix normal lasagna for supper. No more of that silly Skillet Lasagna that is
far from normal.
Having things
normal is very important to Aaron. Of
course, sometimes his normal is anything but………to us. But not to him. So this week Skillet Lasagna vs. normal Oven
Lasagna was an issue to our Aaron……and therefore to me, the cook. Such a minor thing, except to Aaron.
Don’t mess
with Aaron’s normal! Especially not his
normal TRUE lasagna!
Another
lesson learned in life with Aaron.
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